Every girl dreams about having her prince charming come rescue her and give her a fairy tale life. Well too bad, that only happens in cartoon movies. The reality is no relationship is perfect. There will be ups and downs financially, emotionally, physically and mentally. It’s the way you handle the situation that really determines whether you’re built to be wifey and hold it down or another adventure that drove your man to marry the next girl he titty fucks. Some of you women disappoint me from day to day talking about you’re his ride or die… Sure.
Drake said it best: “and if you pillow talking with the women that are screwing you, just know she gone tell another nigga when she through with you” And that’s a proven fact.
As soon as a woman turns on you, all the shit she knows about you will leak faster than Rick Ross album cut. Men don’t understand that as soon as you fuck up, we purposely fuck up. It’s like a chain reaction. You hit her, she will press charges. You cheat, she will mind fuck you enough to have you believing she is fucking your bes tfriend. You talk to her crazy, she will eventually say you threaten her life. Yes it sucks but that’s because Wifey is only loyal when shit is sweet. And in 2012, Heauxs are the new wifey, so what do you expect?
Don’t get it twisted, I am completely against domestic violence, but being realistic – one punch to the face can change your perception to your views of life and make you into a better woman with another man. Great example: Hallie Berry, Rihanna, Robin Givens, etc. All of these women got that one beat down that made them strive harder and not settle for less. Relationships grow from experiences whether their good or bad.
But what do I know? I’m just a girl from Washington Heights who found out some shit about her man and I won’t mention it until I go to AC for the weekend.